Some people voluntarily and willingly do hard works in church because they feel thankful to the Lord for saving them. Some of them, however, stop doing it after others hurt their feelings. It is not the Lord who hurt their feelings, but why did their heart for the Lord change? In the same way, if you have conflicts with others and then your pride gets hurt and you have discomfort in your heart, it is a good chance to discover yourself. I urge you to find the untruthful things in your heart, cast them away, and achieve the heart of spirit that the Lord wants.