Each man has his own taste and favor. With the same active person, some say he is sociable but some others reckless. The people of the same temper easily become familiar, but those of different temper feel uncomfortable. If you have the frameworks in your thought and standpoint, they will restrain you from embracing more people. So, if you want to embrace many people, you have to accomplish gentle and large vessel in your heart that enables you to understand anybody with love and virtue.
"Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth." (Matthew 5:5)