Many verses of the Bible cannot be understood with human thoughts. For example, John 12:24 says that if it dies, it bears much fruit. In other words, when your self-righteousness and old selves are put to death, you can bear much fruit. If you insist on following your own thought and seeking your own benefits, you may even quarrel against your family. If you attribute all faults to yourselves and apologize to the other saying, "It is because I have failed to serve you," no quarrel may happen around you. This is the truth saying, "If you die, you will live."