When your friend makes a big mistake, if you resemble God in heart, you don't try to argue about what is wrong and right. You will think what is better for him rather than distinguishing between right and wrong. And you eagerly want him to repent and turn away. And you patiently wait for him to change because you love and believe him. God loves us in that very way. He wants us to turn back from our sins and steadfastly shows us the right way through men of God.